Dear Queenie,

I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago because we just had too many problems between us.

It's not the first time I've been through a break-up, but always before I felt so sad when a relationship ended. This time I don't feel anything except maybe a little relieved.

Queenie, what's wrong with me?—Feeling nothing

Dear Feeling nothing,

There's nothing wrong with you. There was something wrong with the relationship, you knew it, you felt it, and now you are relieved that it is over.

Learn a lesson from this: when a relationship really is not good don't try to hang on and force it to work, get out before you get all bent out of shape. And learn to choose better when picking a boyfriend.