Dear Queenie,

I have to give the person who wrote you on women who go after married men and men who live with a partner and have a family (Tired of living in Sodom and Gomorrah; Friday, August 20) a big hand. Those women do not care if they put you through hell. All they care about is taking the man and calling all hours in the night.

As for me, I will never put myself with a married man who wants out. He has to fix his business first.

She is not lying. It happens right here in St. Maarten. I went through the same thing a couple of months ago with my child's father. I've been though hell. He left me with a four-year-old child. Every day when I have to go to work I have to carry the child in the blazing sun while the keeper has the car driving around.

They do not care about the child who is going though hell or the years you invested in the relationship. Every relationship has its ups and downs. These women do not care who they hurt at the end of the day.

Men on the other hand also have their fault too and as women we should have pride and respect for others. As for me, I do not respect any man who cheats on his partner. As for the women who go after him, they have no morals and no class.

The other day found out that she is seven months pregnant with his child. What kind of example can she set for that child? And where she is working even her boss and her co-workers are backing her up in what she is doing, instead of telling her what she did was wrong. She should have never gotten involved when she knew he was living with his partner and their child. That boss is setting a very bad example for her workers.

Queenie, any man who cheats on his wife or partner will turn around and cheat on you. Any man who cheats with you can also cheat on you. You will always have in your head: if he could do that to his wife or partner what would he do to me?—Tired of men who cheat

Dear Tired,

You have said it all.